DEAR H&H

I AM CONFUSED.

LATELY I HAVE BEEN HEARING A LOT OF MY FRIENDS AND PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET REFER TO EDGING. 

I HAVE BEEN A SEXUALLY ACTIVE SINCE AMERICAN BEAR MAGAZINE PUT OUT ITS FIRST COLOR EDITION.

I ASKED PEOPLE WHO STATED THEY PRACTICED IT. THEY EXPLAINED THAT IT WAS HOLDING OFF AN ORGASM.

I AM CONFUSED BECAUSE I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT WAS FOREPLAY. ARE EDGING AND FOREPLAY ONE IN THE SAME??

HAS MY BEAR STATUS GONE FROM BEAR TO SQUARE?

SQUARE BEAR in a 360 world

Send your questions to Hot & Heavy

Hot: Why is he yelling?

Heavy:  I don't think he is, I think he left his caps lock on.  He doesn't sound angry.  He's confused, but not angry.

Hot: He's seems all worked up.  Maybe, he just needs a little release.  Edging?  Isn't that when the gardener makes the lawn look all neat and trim?

Heavy: Do you ever leave house?  Edging is when the journey is more fun than the destination.  It is the postponement of orgasm, especially at the hands of someone else, prolonging the ecstasy to near-agony levels. A good top can bring the bottom right to the edge, then not allow him to cum until he's begging for release. 

Hot: Yes, but one wrong move and you've got a sticky mess on your hands. . . And the sheets and the headboard!!

Heavy: You're a quick study.  And the difference between edging and foreplay is that edging is the main event.  It is the focus of the play.  Where as foreplay is the warm up to another activity.  Also, remember edging is different than edge play.  Edge play is a term referring to "on the edge" S/M play.  Be careful what you ask for, you might be in for a big surprise.

Hot: Don't I know it?  When flagging was all the rage, I couldn't keep all the colors straight.  Pick the wrong color and you find your ankles in stirrups and somebody yelling "Ride Em' Cowboy."  On second thought, I kinda liked that one.

Heavy: Well, that was a visual.