February 8, 2008 
 Chewin' the Fat
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Welcome . . .

Chewin' the Fat is a publication from The Complete Bear designed for the bear community. It is published on the 2nd and 4th Fridays of the month.

Chewin' the Fat will offer up the best of the bear lifestyle - casual, cool, or woofy. Whatever it takes to complete the bear.

For the bear, his cub and their den . . .

 Bears in Uniform
 IBR 2008

Cop OK, it was just Christmas, right?

How is it that IBR is just a week away? "But, honey, I have nothing to wear!" This year should be one to remember, we will be providing daily updates on The Bear Bones. Rich promises lots of flesh.

Yum!!

Of course, anybear who's any bear - will be hanging Saturday night with Kathy Griffin. And some lucky bears and cubs will be sharing a cover with Ms. Griffin on the next A Bear's Life issue.

And IBR is just the beginning - check out the Bear Calendar for upcoming events in your area.

International Bear Rendezvous 


 BearParty Magazine
 At you favorite bear bar now

Bear party magazine BearParty Magazine is a convenient, digest-sized print publication distributed for free at hundreds of bear bars, clubs, and events across the United States and around the world.

Each glossy, full-color issue includes bear comics, bear galleries, features on bear-friendly events, celebrities, trends, products, and news.

If you don't find a copy in your local bear bar, members of the free BearParty.com community site can download a copy of each issue for free as soon as it comes out.

WOOF!

Bear Party Magazine 


 Small Town Gay Bar
 

Small Town Gay Bar Recently, there have been many editorials of the demise of the need for "a gay bar" in our urban centers. Do we need to segregate ourselves? Why not simply congregate whenever, wherever with whomever we please? This is a luxury our rural brethren don't have. And "Small Town Gay Bar" reminds of those we left behind as we fled for gay Meccas like San Francisco and NY. The film chronicles their struggles to carve out a place where they can "be themselves."

If you ever needed a reminder of why we fight so hard for equal rights, a trip to Deep South provides constant reminder of the cruelty, ridicule, and even violence faced by gay men and women who simply want to live a honest and open life. And for many, the only chance to do so is the local gay bar. Local being a relative term as many travel far and wide to find an outlet of acceptance in the midst of the Bible Belt.

It is in these small towns that a true LGBT community is created. It's not about bear bars, it's not about lesbian bars - it's about "the bar." The only game in town or in the county or . . .

Drag queens mix with dykes who mix truckers who mix with . . . and they get along, because each understands what it's like to be alone in a small town. They put their differences aside to create a "safe" place, a community, a family.

The film opens with the song "You Gotta Move" played over images of a small town gay bar. One has to wonder if this is the message for those in the film. What we never get is why they stay. Is it the rural lifestyle? Is it a connection to their birthplace and family? We just don't know.

Overall, Small Town Gay Bar provides a slice of the community not often viewed. It is a reminder of how far we've come and how far we still have to go.

Bear & LGBT Film reviews 


 The Twisted Bear
 Finally, leathers for you

The Twisted bear - Finally, leathers for bears The Twisted Bear provides the bear community with the single source it needs for fine bear leathers and toys. The Twisted Bear offer leathers for the bear - full sizes and custom work to meet all of your leather needs.

Yes Sir, may I have another?

The Twisted Bear is but one of many bear businesses that can be found in the Bear Business Directory.

 


 Happy New Year
 Chinese New Year 4706

Chinese New Year 4706 started yesterday with the New Moon and ends on the full moon 15 days later. This is a very superstitious time of the year. Many believe that whatever you do on the first day of the year will dictate the year's fortune.

In other traditions, by this time in the year, most resolutions - made on December 31 - have been subtly forgotten. However, all hope is not lost, as there's a second chance to start afresh with the celebration of Chinese New Year.

So, you have been granted a second chance. While most of your family and friends have long since forgotten their healthy goals, you have a fresh start. How will you use it? Is this the year you start a new walking program? How about an apple a day?, or orange?, or something green on your plate?

Although celebrations of the Chinese New Year vary, the underlying message is one of peace and happiness for family members and friends.

The Complete Bear wishes you much peace and happiness in the New Year. . .

 


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