Leather CyberBears
A big ole bear hug
I wanted to thank Mike and Ken over at CyberBears. They posed for a Twisted Photo shoot.
Kilts, slings, leather and more – OH MY!!
Thanks again guys, you’re the best!
A big ole bear hug
I wanted to thank Mike and Ken over at CyberBears. They posed for a Twisted Photo shoot.
Kilts, slings, leather and more – OH MY!!
Thanks again guys, you’re the best!
We're Here, We're Dead,Recently, we had the chance to sit down with Jose Solomon. Jose is starring in the recently released American Zombie - a documentary about high-functioning zombies struggling to gain acceptance in a human world.
In addition to acting, he a restaurateu in LA. And this woofy morsel is single . . .
You may remember a few moths back that MySpace deleted got fur? Some how gay, hairy men are offensive, but spam in the guise of big breasted women who want to be my friend is ok?
Glad Tom has his priorities in order . . .
Well, you can't keep a good bear down. got fur? is back with more features, more videos, more furry pics and more furry bears waiting to meet you . . .
WOOF!!
I ran into Jack & Cody last weekend. Jack was quick to note Lazy Bear Weekend was in 39 days (OK, that was last Sunday - so you do the math). So bears, it's time.
Since 1995, the Lazy Bear Fund has been committed to helping and supporting a diversity of outreach and educational programs, which benefit our brothers and sisters in the LGBT community. The Bear Tag is the number one fundraising tool that allows LBW to raise much needed cash for Northern California (and beyond) outreach programs through the nonprofit Lazy Bear Fund (501c3).
Recently, a friend stopped by the office the other day. Looking around - he said, "You have the strangest job . . ."
I somehow managed to end up in the lower depths of Kink.com's dungeon and I thought "I have the strangest job . . .".
I moved to SF eight years ago - a wide-eyed boy from the Midwest (well, not really - but just go with it) and now I'm in the bowels of the Armory. Like that wasn't enough, now I can finally make an honest man out of husbear. The weddings start in 3 days.
Wow, Mom would be so proud. Speaking of proud, all of us at The Complete Bear and The Twisted Bear want to wish you all the best at this momentous time - If you are getting married - Mazal Tov! And to the rest of you - Happy Pride!!
Hubear and I headed up to Tahoe for the eekend. With the magic of technology and a irele cardm, I can stay connected to the outide orld . . .
Huh? What? Sadly, husbear dropped my laptop and managed to break my “S” and “W” keys. And while I can probably take or leave “W,” I’ve come to rely on “S.” The top five most used letters are E, T, A, O, N - but S usually comes in 6th or 7th (depending on the source) – it dukes it out with “I.” However, S is believed to be the most used letter to start a word.
Yea, it’s been that kinda week!!
Do you identify with main stream gay society? Are you more at home in the bear brotherhood without all the trappings of the muscle boys and A listers? Or are you a square peg trying to find a hole?
It is natural to seek community - hell you signed up here more than the porn, right? LOL
We asked our readers, here's what they told us . . .
We asked our readers which magazine would most likely be on their coffee table (548 bears picked from a list of 20 or so publications - gay, straight or otherwise). The top magazine likely to be on a bear's coffee table - National Geographic. Who knew you were such a well read and inquisitive group?
In addition, the top four included A Bear's Life, Men's Health and The Advocate. So apparently, we only read People and The Enquirer at the checkout . . .

Sometimes, you just gotta get away. So, husbear and I commenced our annual pilgrimage to the Motherland. We love Berlin, a bear has adorned the city seal since 1280 – so we feel right at home. And the Turkish men? Dark and hairy - WOOF!
In addition to our regular Berlin excursions – sex shops, fetish parties – you know the usual vacation agenda – we ventured north to Rugen. Rugen is located on the Baltic Sea on the reunified side of East Germany. Rolling country sides with mustard fields and cows.
Jet lagged, I’ve landed in Chicago to attend IML and Bear Pride. It’s always a great time to catch up with friends, check out the beef on the hotel lobby and of course The Complete Bear and The Twisted Bear will be at the Leather Market. So, we hope to return with lots of sordid stories and pictures – lots of pictures.
It’s a tough job, but someone has to do it.
Do you identify with main stream gay society? Are you more at home in the bear brotherhood without all the trappings of the muscle boys and A listers? Or are you a square peg trying to find a hole?
We are pleased to announce that our very own Mistress of Procurement was a contestant in this year's International Ms. Leather contest (L to R - Rope, Larry & Liza). As a gay man (or where ever you fall on the spectrum) what role models did you have growing up? How did these role models (or the lack there of) affect you?
Here's what you told us -
Tell us your experiences . . .
"Neither rain, nor snow, nor dark of night shall keep these bears from having a furry good time . . ."
Queremos reconocer la diversidad de nuestra comunidad y comprendemos que la hermandad entre osos atraviesa muchas culturas y países. ¡Visítanos!.
Además, hemos lanzado "Osos Y Ositos" - un foro en línea para osos hispanohablantes y sus admiradores - para que se puedan poner en contacto, compartir imágenes, y demás.
¡WOOF!
I asked Rich Tramontozzi of the Bears of San Francisco to describe Sister Barbi - "Tireless, hard-working, inspiring, and fabulous! All the qualities of Mother Theresa, Moses, and more - but much sexier and no burning bush!" We asked our readers, and here is what they told us –
Sometimes, you gotta kiss a lot of frogs. But, know that you are not alone. We all struggle with self image and confidence. Looking to meet new friends, step outside the bars and find community. Maybe it’s volunteer work, or a bear social – but trust me there a men out there waiting to meet you.
Playbill Radio streams showtunes 24/7. Ladies Who Lunch? Yup. Dream Girls? Of Course? Gypsy 1959 Original Broadway Cast - Duh!

OK, my gay meter is so pegged. But, I've already started singing "One Singular Sensation"
We are off to Dallas for a few days to attend Texas Bear Round UP - Cirque Des Ours. In the meantime, check out the bear calendar for some great bear upcoming events . . .
Either SF is a small town, or I have extremely odd bear radar.
A friend returned from a meeting at City Hall and said, “I saw this hot bear looking guy covered with tattoos . . .”
I responded, “That was Scott.”
“Huh? How could you know that?“
OK, there are plenty of bears in SF - so, it wasn’t that. Surely, there are plenty of bears with tattoos in SF - nope, it wasn’t that. Tattooed bear working at City Hall – We’ve got a winner. That was enough info to narrow the field. That and a good guess.
My friend now thinks I know every bear in SF. "Do you know the bearista at Starbucks in Glenn Park?"
"Of course, that’s Brian."
OK, so maybe I do know a few bears . . .
Here is what you told us -
I discovered bears in college from the various websites from the then-shiny new internet (not really new I know, but newly available) -- and would peruse the websites guiltily over the beautiful bear magazine scans that would proliferate everywhere back then. This behavior and borderline obsession came with it a great deal of emotional turmoil, confusion, and soul searching which culminated in 1998, after three hours of crying in the dark in my dormitory room, I got up and looked in the mirror, wiped the tears out of my eyes, took a deep breath, and finally, out loud to myself said "I'm gay."
I've always been a hairy man. As far back as high school, I can remember being more hairy than most. I'd get stares from the other guys in my gym class like I was some sort of freak. At the time, I was a little embarrassed. It wasn't until about 5 years ago (I'm now 46 years old) that I knew there was a name for men like me. I have to say now that I'm proud for being a Bear!
I was still married (to a woman) and wondered how a larger / hairy man fit in the gay world. I found gay.com and looked around. I started my screen name as "rookiebear" LOL. My friends now tell me to change that to “EXPERIENCEDbear.” But I'm happy with that name still. That’s where I found that there were people who liked all types. After divorce and coming out, I quickly found the bear community to be accepting - but - also at times still very divided.

Recently, we had a chance to sit down with Joe Manetti – some of you may know him as Joe Falconi from his “acting days.”
But there is a lot going on with this dynamo – Joe uses whatever attention he receives to focus on encouraging the community to enjoy safer sex responsibly. He works with a variety of organizations that support LGBTQ people, and is a HIV Testing Counselor and Outreach Worker for the County Public Health Department.
Most recently, he was a contributing writer to GORGEOUS magazine. His first published article was on HIV POZ leaders in the community.
Sadly, after three years Got Fur? is gone. Apparently, Tom was offended. Was it the furry chests? Was it the image of two hunks making out? Was it the sweaty leather guys?
We will never know. No notice, not warning, just gone. So half naked co-eds routinely spamming our inboxes is ok. Dating services and hookup sites bannered across every page? Again, ok! Building a community of 3,200+ bears over 3 years to share resources, calendar listings, fund raisers and bear runs – somehow that’s offensive to MySpace.
Apparently, this is a pretty common occurrence over at MySpace. We heard from Aloha Bears and Bearracuda both had similar experiences in the last 30 days. Emails inquiring about the deletion are met with automated responses suggesting we must have committed some form of TOS violation and that deleted accounts cannot be discussed, nor can they be recovered. Gotta love customer service, eh?
We will continue to provide you all you need to know on the bear community – bear runs, bear calendar and bear resources. We will continue to blog about bear life on A Bear’s Den and here on Bear Bones. We’ll miss Got Fur?, but here at The Complete Bear we will always ensure that you have the latest from the bear community.
WOOF!
OK, I am not saying you routine is predictable, but there’s more mystery to a Golden Girls episode.
You and husbear have been together for what? A few months? Years? Eternity? You may have been once catted like Blanche, but now you are starting to sound a lot more like Dorothy and Sophia.
We asked our readers for tips they had for keeping their relationships fresh – here’s what they told us:

This year, the Dallas Bears are preparing for the thirteenth TEXAS BEAR ROUND UP – CIRCUS OF THE BEARS. The bears expect to welcome over 850 participants. As in previous years, guests come from nearly all 50 states as well as Asia, Europe and South America to attend this great event from March 20-23, 2008. Registered attendees enjoy a wide array of events and activities scheduled for their participation. For more info visit www.tbru.org
TBRU is one of the largest gatherings of its kind in the country and its success over the years has allowed The Dallas Bears to return over $200,000 to local gay and lesbian charities.
2008 TBRU 13 major beneficiaries include:
"There's something inherently virile and masculine about growing a beard. It kind of evokes a mountain climber, an explorer, a warrior. I'm a man, dammit, and I'm not going to be coiffed, and I'm not putting on moisturizer, and I don't need toner and exfoliant and all that crap..."
GQ STYLE EDITOR ADAM RAPOPORT ON THE CURRENT POPULARITY OF BEARDS, CHICAGO TRIBUNE | 2.17.08
Hmm, sounds like a bear to me!

These are not paid inclusions, these aren’t paid for listings. These are bear businesses run by bears supporting bear causes. And, they appreciate your business.
Know a good bear business? Tell us. Visited one of these businesses? We’d love to get your feedback.
WOOF!
Bearly Edible is a recipe, entertaining and kitchen tips blog. The explosion of blogs and social networking sites has taken the internet to a new dimension over the past few years. It only seemed fitting that there be a community for gay bearish men who love to cook and entertain. The contributors of this site identify themselves as members and friends of the bear community.
We sat down with the man behind Bearly Edible – Chef Tom.
Well, another IBR has come and gone. The bears came, they played, they shopped the Vendor Maul and Kathy Griffin made us laugh.
Where to begin? First and foremost, a big ole bear hug to Rich, Jim, Cody, Chuck, Mark, Pookie and all the wonderful BOSF Bears who worked day and night to make sure we all had a great time. Only 363 days until the next one.
IBR (or any bear run for that matter) is about connecting with friends and meeting a few folks that we only know from long distance chatter to finally put a face to the screen name. Despite chatting and working with a lot of folks in the bear community, sometimes it’s only online or on phone. This weekend, I had a chance to finally meet Nard of Bearpodcast, Joey Manetti, Brent Marr of Brent Marr Art, Ron Brundige – Mr San Diego Bear and many more.
It’s also a chance to catch up with friends. NoelBear has a new video on YouTube. Harry of Castro Bear Presents and Sweat was working hard for a merit badge, or was he just working a Boy Scout or two? There was Bingo with the Sisters, naughtiness at Bears, Bath & Beyond. And I think they threw in a little contest thingy (more on that later).
And then there was Ms. Griffin. She toured the Vendor Maul with a complete entourage. Jessica, Tiffany and Tom were in tow. Tom was a little disappointed he was not sufficiently lusted after. “Sorry Tom, there were a lot of hot furry men in SF this weekend that sort of had us distracted . . .” Kathy left the Maul with plenty of Bear Porn and lube.
As the limo rolled up to the Castro Theatre – the line was around the block, down the alley all the way up to Starbears – this was a sold out show. We were treated to a video montage of Kathy’s career – who knew? She took the stage and the bears couldn’t have been happier. And she worked it. She even managed to squeeze Celine and Liza into act. She was pulling out the big ole furry gay cards!!
So a bunch bears came together, had a party, took in a show, ate Dim Sum and came together as one. Pretty cool, eh?