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Dear Mike,
Welcome . . .
Chewin' the Fat is a
publication from
The Complete Bear designed for the bear
community. It is published on the 2nd and 4th
Fridays of the month.
Chewin' the Fat will offer up
the best
of the bear lifestyle - casual, cool, or woofy.
Whatever it takes to complete the bear.
For the bear, his cub and
their den . . .
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Bear Fitness
Ask the Coach
As the new year begins, each of us begins
looking for a healthier life - our goals vary
as much as our reasons, but its all a "rush
to the gym" new year. With that in mind,
lets all remember our mental health needs
addressing as well!
The biggest challenge I have found in helping
my clients reach their fitness goals has been
in overcoming their pre-determined mental
walls regarding their outward appearance. It
is all based upon a predetermined model that
we, as Americans, set for ourselves. Let us
look at that model - thin, waify, low
bodyfat, chiseled, tanned, bodies devoid of
hair and even of personality!
For those of us seeking something slightly
different, I offer the beefy, muscular,
YOUNG, healthy looking TANNED beefcake we see
in those porn ads and movies.
Well, I don't know about you, but none of
that sounds remotely interesting to me - well,
maybe for visuals, but definitely not for my
body, as I know the unforgiving camera
requires that each of those versions give up
SO much to look that way for a moment of
their lives. Meanwhile, I like eating! I
like enjoying life! I want to be
appreciating all that this world offers to me
rather than restricting my life. So how do
you do that while keeping a healthy body?
Its not easy, but it doesn't have to be hard
either. Just a bit of focus, some
intelligent planning, and good choices will
always provide the benefit of a healthy
lifestyle and a full, enjoyable life.
Remember that we Can and Will be - whatever
we want. Rather than say I should, replace
this with I am - because we are beautiful,
we are strong, we are great, we are!
Ask the Bear Coach
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A cock shot? Really?
I am a member of several groups and am
always amazed that guys choose Mr. Happy as
their profile pic. OK, is it just me? Give
me a woofy face, let me look into those eyes!
Am I alone?
We asked, here's what you told us -
- You're not in the least alone in this. I
also would much prefer to know much more
about a guy before seeing the plumbing. A
great face, good conversation, a sense of
humor and the ability to really make me think
make me melt much more than a gratuitous dick
shot.
- Oh yes indeed! Gimme that woofy face! A
beard just accentuates the eyes. And add a
smile of contentment- and if those eyes are
smiling the same way, I am a puddle! Love to
see a man's hands too- great combo: hands
that look like they are strong and hard
working, yet could touch so gently! Favorite
observation: watching how a man holds a
fork!
- The last thing I want to see is a man's
dick. If it's the first thing, it will
probably be the last. To me, it suggests all
the guy wants is sex. Let me know there is
more to you than just your dick, as every man
has one...I want to see what makes you
unique, your true character.
- # Nope. Most definitely NOT just
you...I'm a face guy. When I see a terrific
face with beautiful eyes and a beard, I'm
jelly. if a guy sends me a dick shot, I
usually don't respond. Because what am I
supposed to do?? I'm sure as HELL not going
to send him one of mine! "Do not open until
Christmas," etc. You have to leave SOME
mystery...;-)
- If I had to rely on my eyes or face to
get someone to communicate not to mention
have sex with I would be forever alone. Never
was a good looker. Part of the Bear allure is
raw animal sex not having to woo someone with
your looks and charm.
- Nope~ I love a bear's beard and eyes and
voice and paws and smile and laugh....the
whole package not just an anonymous cock and
balls!
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Bears in Gear
Leather, Uniform, Gear
The Bears of San Francisco, The Twisted
Bear
and Chaps present Bears in Gear - We're
looking for bears with: leather/latex pants,
vests, shirts, uniforms, jackets, boots,
biker gear, gloves, harnesses, collars,
cuffs, armbands, jocks, jeans, man smells,
hoods, sports gear, cigars... get the idea?
A portion of all leather and gear sales will
benefit the Bears of San Francisco. Get Your
Gear and support a good cause!
That's not enough? There's no pleasing you is
there? Be that way - how about more #@*&
free stuff? I have six Bears in Gear Shirts
(2-XL, 2-2X, 1-3X and 1- 4X). Send me an
email with T-Shirt in the subject line and
your size and you may get the shirt off my back!
See you at Chaps!
Bears in Gear
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